Friday, July 30, 2010

Dear Dr. Woodward

Dear Dr. Woodward,

In January of 2009, we began to seriously consider moving back to Fairbanks. There was something big holding us up...and that big thing was diabetes. We had lived here previously and we knew that sometimes medical care could be lacking. After all, Fairbanks is remote. 6 hours north of Anchorage....less than 200 miles south of the Arctic Circle. Jada had been diagnosed with diabetes about 6 months after we had moved back to the lower 48. We felt relieved that we were in a big city with a large hospital who could take care of her and give us some good tools. She was so sick upon diagnosis, that if we had been living here at the time, I don't know if she would have survived. It would have meant Jada being transported by plane to Anchorage or even Seattle for treatment. So, we had some serious concerns about moving back.

However, we really believed that God was calling us back here....and knew that He would provide our every need and that Jada would be taken care of. If anything, we KNEW how to take care of her and if we had to drive 6 hours to Anchorage every three months for an A1C, we would do it. I decided to make a few phone calls. I found out there was a diabetes center...found the phone number and called. That was the most reassuring phone call that I could have made. You see, Dr. Woodward, they told me all about you and Dr. Steiner and how you both had stepped up to the plate and were taking good care of all the Type 1 kids in the Fairbanks area--because there are no enodocrinologists in Fairbanks. I knew then, that, God was giving us the go ahead...that care was available and that the care was good.

The first time I met you, I was even more reassured. Jada was so shy...and you were so patient with her. You won her over the first time you brought a sample pump out and she held it in her hands....and then told her they came in pink. That first visit, Jada had a low blood sugar and you were more ready than I was. You quickly disappeared into your office and brought back a juice box with Bert and Ernie on it...her favorite kind. When Jada's A1C came back at 6.7...you were just as excited as I was. The next visit when it rose to 8.0.....you weren't critical...you were encouraging...and we carefully evaluated her numbers to see what changes we needed to make. And we did well....the next A1C was 7.6.....and you were so happy with it. When I failed to thoroughly log blood sugars, you didn't jump all over me..actually, when I apologized, you smiled and told me that you knew I would do better next time...that I was busy and that I had my hands full with 4 kids plus a new job.

You were a student of this disease. As a matter of fact, you only prescribed one pump to all of your patients...because you were the ONE person in town that we would be able to get some help from if something went wrong. You listened to me.....you understood that I was the primary care giver and that ultimately, her care was in my hands on a day to day basis. You were my cheerleader and sounding board.

And now you're gone. It's been a shock...I've had a hard time processing it this week. Where do we go from here? Do we give Dr. Steiner a try? Do we go to Anchorage or Wasilla? All I know is that I really would like to have you back! Jada's pump arrived just a few days before you passed into eternity......I was so looking forward to this journey with you. Your amazing staff, however, is pressing on and taking care of all of your kids. I found out today that there will be 2 other kids close to Jada's age taking the pump class with us. Do their moms feel as I do? Like we're starting this journey without our greatest advocate? I know we'll figure it out...and I know that we'll press on...but it won't be the same with out you......

You are much loved and missed.......

Amy



Dr. Marianna "Missy" Boaz Woodward passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, July 25, 2010, in Fairbanks.
She is remembered and mourned by countless family and friends in Alaska and on both coasts of the United States.
Born in Charlottesville, Va., on Jan. 27, 1951, Missy grew up on her family's apple farm south of town in Covesville. She graduated from Lane High School in Charlottesville and attended Agnes Scott College in Atlanta one year before transferring to Davidson College in North Carolina. When she graduated with honors in 1973, she was the first female graduate in the school's history. She and her husband, Kes, who graduated with her from Davidson the same year, were married in 1971.
The couple moved to Alaska in 1977, living in Juneau and Anchorage before moving to Fairbanks in 1981. An art major at Davidson and full-time studio potter during her first few years in Alaska, Missy decided to become a doctor and completed three years of undergraduate science courses in Juneau and Fairbanks before entering the WAMI medical program. She received her medical doctor's degree from the University of Washington in 1987 and completed her pediatric residency at Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center in Hanover, N.H. in 1991.
Missy joined Tanana Valley Clinic in 1991, and in addition to seeing pediatric patients, served as the clinic's president and for several years as its first medical director. She continued to practice with the remarkable staff of TVC and Fairbanks Memorial Hospital at the time of her death.
Missy was preceded in death by her father, Emmett Daniel Boaz Jr.; her mother, Marianna Wilson Boaz; and her sister, Ada Cornelia Boaz.
She is survived by her husband, Kesler Woodward of Fairbanks; son, Eli Woodward and his partner Becca Lang of Seattle; brothers, Emmett Daniel Boaz III and Wilson Ashby Boaz of Virginia; sister, Emily Katherine Kroehler of Virginia; treasured nieces and nephews now living in Virginia, Texas and Fairbanks; and her husband's family in South Carolina.
A memorial service for Missy will be held at 4 p.m., Thursday, July 29, at Zion Lutheran Church, 2982 Davis Road, with Pastor Susan Granata of Christ Lutheran Church officiating. A reception will follow at the church.

12 comments:

Kristin said...

I'm so sorry for you Amy but I know that God will bring forward the right path when it is time, just like he did when he brought forward Dr. Woodward.
Love You!
Kristin

Penny said...

Beautiful letter-tribute to her. She sounded wonderful. Here's hoping you find another doctor along her path.

Lora said...

Wow! She sounded wonderful. I am glad you shared this with us. She should be the example for all those out there who take care of our kids. I say you give the other doctor a chance. I am sure they worked together for a reason.

phonelady said...

Not to be morbid but may I ask what was the cause of death or do they know ? I had a cousin who just died one day and we were all in shock . Im sure her family and your family is in shock as well . I hope you find some medical care you like soon . God love you and bless you .

Meri said...

I'm glad you had her support when you did. It was obvious she was a wonderful person! She did just what everyone wants their endo to do, she wasn't critical, she encouraged, and she celebreated your victories with you! What a special lady.

alix said...

So sorry about your loss. God will provide another who will take good care of your daughter... Continue walking in grace.
blessings

Joanne said...

I am so sorry to hear that you lost such a special person... your post brought tears to my eyes. She sounds like she was an amazing doctor and person, and I pray that you're able to come close to filling her hole in your life.

Amy said...

I do believe she had a heart attack. She was working out at the gym...a 24 hour place that is unmanned...so she was alone. The security camera actually caught the event...she was working out on the elliptical, clutched her chest, then collapsed. Very shocking....

Reyna said...

Heartbreaking! Your letter/tribute to her is absolutely beautiful. I can feel how special she was to you, Jada, and so many families in the area.

Thank you for sharing and (((BIG HUGS))) from your Vermont Friends.

Laura said...

I remember you blogging about her in the past when talking about the pump and that there was only 1 doctor there - - - I thought she was so special then. You spoke of her with great respect and I thought the same although I didn't even know her. She took on a great responsibility with the T1 children and worked hard to help her patients. What an amazing woman, doctor and advocate.

I know she will be so missed.

I love your tribute to her. You are also an amazing woman, mother and pancreas - you will be able to do this! We are all here cheering you on from all over the world!!

RFamHere said...

I'm so sorry! Your letter is a wonderful tribute.

Rachel said...

Oh how sad! I'm late reading this. What devastating news. I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful doctor.

I will be praying for your family and for Dr. Woodward's family.